This letter you are reading was/is being, written while Kathryn and I travel to Colorado. As we neared our first 400 miles, we made our first stop for gas and to switch drivers. So, while Kathryn takes the wheel, I type on a bumpy road somewhere in Kansas. So far, we have seen no less than 6 accidents where people lost control on the wet roads (It’s been raining heavily since we entered Oklahoma). Some of the vehicles managed to get their cars so far off the road, we couldn’t even figure out how they got there.
With a New Year, I was drawn to think about how many people are dealing with a like reference in life. What I mean is, as we both look around and perhaps even a quick glance in the mirror, we see that for some people, their lives have spun or are spinning out of control. Some have gotten to that point because of contact with another vehicle (person). Some have ended up where they are because of hitting a barrier and rebounding out of control. Others we going to fast and just not paying attention to some of the dangers around them. And for even a few we look and say, how could they have possibly gotten where they are from here of where they were.
Holidays and especially the major Holy days that are centered on love and family life with God and each other can become a burden on some and a dread for others. I urge you to work to keep your life in control. If you feel like you’re losing traction, slow down and perhaps even give someone else the wheel for a while. Let others in the Body of Christ be a support for you.
Several Bible verses come to mind for those dealing with their loss of control in life. 1 Corinthians 10:13, “No temptation has seized you except what is common to man. God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you can stand up under it.” So many people around us have traveled down the same roads we are on now. Some successfully and some who have spun-out in the past and learned from their experiences. They can help us just as we would certainly be willing to help them.
Philippians 4:13, “I can do all things through Him who gives me strength.” While some may want to take this verse and use it to suggest a manipulation of what an individual can do and believe that God will back them. We should read it as an understanding that if we properly place God first in our lives, He’s the one who really takes the wheel for us. Like the hymn, “Jesus Savior Pilot Me”, we don’t want God in the passenger or co-pilot seat. Let Him have control and trust He’ll get you where you need to be.
Finally, 1 Peter 5:6-8, “Humble yourselves, therefore, under God’s mighty hand, that he may lift you up in due time. Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you. Be self-controlled and alert. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour.” The devil is looking for ways to help us lose control. He wants us to veer off the road and feel that we have nowhere else to go. You know that’s not true. Jesus said He is with us always. He also gave us each other to support and hold on to when we’re in times of trouble or the road is difficult. Don’t lose control in the New Year, Hand the keys for your life to Jesus and take comfort that He and your sisters and brothers in Christ are there for you.